Officially..

Officially ..its been 1 year already hold title job as Supervisor at The Chef Hot Bread Sdn Bhd..

Alhamdulillah..

Rezeki ada dimana2..InsyaAllah mun ada dpt tawaran kerja lain..may be ada yang lebih baik.

INSYAALLAH.

chayok2 SinDs.

^_^

Salam Ramadhan

Happy Fasting to all dear Muslim..

semoga bulan ramadhan kita dirahmati dan panjang umur supaya bertemu lagi di bulan ramadhan seterusnya.

aaminn.

enjoy to listening tis song... :) as bday gift la k from me.

Say La La La...LOVE SONG!!^^ 

Let's feel in love with love blue..

Does not disappear as the touch of love..

I'll tell you is certainly many times..

I love you

Not hesitate to ... SAY YES ...

Not hesitate to ..... 

remind my self..

Orang yang dah murah rezeki..dapat kerja itu..ini.,gaji tinggi pun kadang-kadang ada yang masih tidak puas hati dan tidak pandai bersyukur. Bagi me., yang baru nak mula hidup bekerja.,rezeki kecil ney pun..mun dah "bergolek" depan mata pun dah bersyukur. as i am know..even kerja d bakery shop jak..Alhamdulillah..awal-awal dah murah rezeki. sik sampai setahun dah jadi Penyelia. **eseh..baru sedar juak..hehe..may be my potensi dari segi bekerja baik.,senang la dibagi naik pangkat..tapi gaji nya belum naik-naik. -.-" insyaAllah may be on July or August my figure of salary x sama dah. :) i hope so..sementara tunggu jawapan dari tempat kerja lain yang pernah me apply or result SPA/e-recruitment dah ada...a.s.a.p ada la juak improvement. If tak dapat Gov..may be tempat kerja lain. thanks too to my family and my love one .asry..coz dah banyak tolong, sama-sama survey n inform pasal vacancy..


**at least sama2 senang..sik fikir susah gilak about bajet........ehem. :)


The Chef Hot Bread..my workplace yang ke-3 lpas KFC and Parkcity Everly Hotel. really..really...really hoping..will do have miracle happen in the right time there.

GOOD LUCK NYAN~NYAN

^_^

Howl's Moving Castle

My fav movie!! ..

Howl's Moving Castle is a 2004 Japanese animated fantasy drama film written and directed by Hayao Miyazaki of Studio Ghibli and based on the novel of the same name by Diana Wynne Jones. Mamoru Hosoda, director of one episode and two movies from the Digimon series, was originally selected to direct but abruptly left the project, leaving the then-retired Miyazaki to take up the director's role.

they also produced C&A videoclip On Your Mark. -Chage n Aska.. my oppa fav song. ^^

http://vimeo.com/13838013

wanna share my fav ost of Howl's Moving Castle movie..cover by Sungha Jung.

on 2009...

and another 1..on 2012. ^^

really..really love tis movie!!.. :) okay!

budget 2012

RM200+RM10+RM200+RM440+RM525+RM70...=R1445

okayla..unless my salary in tis year very useful for payment my yuran driving license. :) ALHAMDULILLAH..settle dh...tunggu yg 'P' ya jak gik.....lom confirm gik okay. Wish me good luck. ;D

Conquer my saving.

Your savings accounts are the foundation of your financial future. Say that out loud. LV Bootcamp is letting you in on a big secret: watching your money grow in a savings account isn’t magic—it’s just math! Do the math.

Learn:
There are three main types of saving accounts, including basic savings, CDs, and Money Market Accounts. In general, ignore the different names, they all help your money grow. Whichever you choose, you must look for:

•No monthly fees for having the account
•A low minimum balance (or none at all)
•FDIC insurance coverage
•The highest possible interest rate

Obviously, a high interest rate sounds like a good thing. To really grasp how your savings account grows your money, though, you have to understand APY and compounding interest.

APY (Annual Percentage Yield) is the yield (AKA, amount) your deposit will earn over the course of a year. The APY takes compounding into account.

Compounding is interest you’re earning on the interest your investment has already earned. When the gains you make on your investment start to earn money and those returns start to earn money, and so on, your money grows exponentially.

Savings were calculated assuming regular monthly deposits earning an 5% return, compounded monthly. Source: Bankrate - Simple Savings Calculator

Figure out the current status of your savings. Do you have one or more savings accounts? What kind of savings accounts are they (CDs, Money Market Accounts, etc.)? How much interest are they earning? Know exactly how much you have in savings to date. Action Time: 5 minutes Make sure that your savings account offers the above four things. Make “no fees, high interest!” your new mantra. Action Time: 2 minutes Ensure that you have a savings account that only you control. If you don’t, open one now! It’s important to have an account that isn’t tied to your parents, your boyfriend, your husband, or anyone else, so that you have a safety net all to yourself. If you don’t have a good savings account or a savings account all to yourself, open one now. NOW! Simply pick your bank of choice from the LearnVest Approved Accounts (We’ve vetted the accounts that meet the above criteria). For step-by-step help on opening an account, see the LearnVest checklist, “I Need a Savings Account,” we’ll hold your hand! Action Time: 13 minutes

Happy Mother's day comin soon..

Mum I’m grown up now
It’s a brand new day
I’d like to put a smile on your face every day
Mum I’m grown up now
And it’s not too late
I’d like to put a smile on your face every day

bout Beach boys drama...

lately...my fav drama..wtching time on9..huhu.,Beach Boys.. :)

Takashi Sorimachi n Yutaka Takenouchi.

owh..my fav song ost drama nie...h0ho..suma nice..

sing a love song for me. :)



now we're here together..

forever your love... :)

mean a long distance for me..

Distance doesnt ruin a relationship, doubts do...

it's so true...but girls..Don’t think too much. coz you probably will create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place :)

in fact.....Distance is a test of love. many will fail for those who can't withstand it. But,for those who can,there's only one answer.... 


TRUE LOVE

aiyerrr..pandai jiwang mode indah tonite..sole2 mena..hahaha..

owh2..wanna share d other one of pic.. :)

tata~

Which one is ur number 7..

til today..me tulis no 7 like a right side...hahaha..,stail knon.
but..u noe wat..no 7 is my fav too... :) why?

why..why..why..hehehe.,coz im born on JULY -7-  =D

n in tis year..in tis month..n today..wanna wish happy ann 7th monthasaries to ma oppa. hehe

no 7 myb is my lucky numb...coz ma oppa born in 70's an..,its 1977. :)

n now..do u stil wondering..which one is ur number 7?...ahaha..

All Time Best 2002-2006 ^^ (My Generasi)

 flashback moments..here we go..hehehe..

in 2002-2005:SMK TATAU

2002-Form 1A (sweet 13 years old)

Belakang dari kiri : Awg Zekryanto, Albert buan, Awg Nurjihan, Tu kah hing, Tin see yun, Lai Son Tong, Mohd Farid, Halif Johari, Nyawai Tagai, Saviour Tero, Nicholas Nyelang, Murphy Hendry

Tengah dari kiri: Mohd Kamal, Lo Teck Hwa, Teo Boon Kiat(terer lukis animasi..n i learn to sketch from him lerr ^^), Tan Yew Hui, Kho Mee Teck, Amsler Eliot, Sim Swee Huat, Mohd Bidari, Tang Cheng Fang, Elizabeth Minit, Juliana Jampong(kakak Karen Jampong)

Duduk dari kiri: Zaila Ramli, Miss Azman, Nyan-nyan, Nurhanisa(my cuz), Elfira, Siti Noraliza(comel..sma skolah dari tadika gik ^^), Nurul Khairunnisa, Puan Maini, Khairun Nasirin, Chew Mei Ping, Audrey, Niana, Christina, Kanoh, Karen Jampong(adik Juliana Jampong).**hehe...telengong juak i tok..dh terang sia sama nama..adik beradik la ya..huahua..

2003-Form 2A (hero n heroin 14 years old)

in 2005..me pindah sekolah p SM Teknik Bintulu in Catering Course...

2005-Form 4 katering.

(uina..my new classmate. :) )

Belakang dari kiri : Goldon Albert, Ifthikar Shabli, Iswandi

Tengah dari kiri : Noribanatty Laipah, Alicia, Flora, Shallma, Norfarahain, Karen, Elizabeth Philip, Alicia Violet, Stephanie Stephen, Lorina, Jessica, Talai, Olivia, Diana, Blazzi Lim

Duduk Dari Kiri : Nyan-nyan, Korniza puasa, Naimah, Arina, Crispian, Cikgu Elsie, Siti Rohayu, Catherine, Jeanneth Ike, Bibiana, Dorothy

2006- Form 5 Katering. 

(deh..hahaha..mcm bukan form 5 jak)

extra pic for tis entry. :)

jeng..jeng..pic Pengawas sesi 2006 if x salah..lupa diii..

SM TEKNIK BINTULU.


miss the old times..Yeaaahhh!!my generasi..

Cheese cake..my fav all of time!

Bahan-bahan :

 200 ml double cream

120 gm gula kastor

6 biji kuning telur

6 biji putih telur

60 gm tepung jagung

60 gm margerin / butter

500 gm cream cheese

Cara Membuat :

1. Asingkan putih dan kuning telur. Pukul putih telur hingga menjadi meringue dan masukkan ke dalam chiller.

2. Pukul gula kastor dan kuning telur hingg kembang.

3.Masukkan margerin, cream cheese, tepung jagung dan double cream pelahan-lahan. Pukul hingga sebati.

4. Setelah itu, masukkan meringue tadi dan gaul hingga sebati.

5. Bakar adunan pada suhu 165 C, selama 34-45 minit.

okay..sya rindu klas kitchen bha ini di PKK..hehe

kalo buat cheese cake..bagi2 la ah. ahahaha..;p

kbye

How to propose to your girlfriend. :D

This is the one of trickiest moment in your life you can think. You don’t know how to make of her. She seems serious enough about the relationship. Now comes the hard part-how do you let her know without getting into a lot a of difficulties because of the likelihood that your moves could be misconstrued? If you’re quite sure about her feelings, and you don’t want her ro start guessing the state of your heart, you’ll have to make a move somehow.

Some things to consider.

-          Pick the right time

: Don’t pick a time when she is under a lot of stress, or when either of you is going rough patch in life. You both must be absolutely convinced that you truly wan to spent the rest of your lives together. Is it the time when both of you are quite relaxed in life, no major crises looming. You decide.

-    Stay honest.

: It seem tempting to try and impress your girlfriend with a flashy proposal, but keep in mind that she loves you for being you. Proposing to her in a way that comes from deep within your heart, rather  than attempting to dazzle her with contrived situation., is what will really win her over.

-          Stir in some romance.

: although you want your proposal to be genuine, it’s also going to be one of the most romantic things you ever do.

-        Consider her feelings

: Your girlfriend might be quite and shy, in which case she might be terrified if you propose to her with a huge song and dance. Similarly , if she doesn’t like sports, proposing during a ball game would reflect more in your interest and not hers. Give a moment of thought to what she would really enjoy the most. If you propose to her when the time is right, it will be far more likely that she’ll cherish the memory forever.

-          Make it special.                                                                                  : If you and your girlfriend share many interest, now is your chance to create a proposal plan that’s tailored to your strengths as a couple. People are getting more and more creative with their proposal these days, and everyone is sure to remember it if you propose to your girlfriend in a quirky way that shows off your individuality. Or if you think a traditional approach would be more appropriate, you can simply chance a few of the details so that it subtly reflects you and your partner’s personalities. Go with what your hearts tells you right. And proposal really can be that perfect golden moment in both of your lives.

you are so sweet then...

we will appreciate it. :)

how i wish.... T_T

Choi Joon Young - Endless Love

hey ho! wanna treat any menu of pasta for CNY 2012?

Happy Chinese New Year 2012!! that we believed tahun naga air yang banyak kelebihan or something yang baik2. huhu..almost that is kepercayaan bagi bangsa yg mnymbut tahun baru cina.  **owh..idk well about that.

owh..while watching tv.,my fav show "Chef at Home" tonite..nampak gaya dh btukar chef., now with Chef Micheal Smith. hahaha..pdh jak.,bukan kenal pun. :p hehe.. making pizza at home. but it just remind me with pasta. :Spaghetti Bolognise  **yes..spaghetti ya 'spesis' pasta juak. :D spesis?? hahahaa

Basic Boiled Pasta

2 lt water

250 gm dry pasta (Spaghetti)

1 tbsp olive oil

To taste oil

Method:

1. Bring the water and the salt to a rolling boil in large pot. Add the Olive oil to the water.
2. Plunge pasta into seasoned boiling water. In the initial state of boiling, stir the pasta to separate and prevent clogging.
3. Cook pasta al dente stage (firm to bite) 12-15 minutes.
4. Once cooked, drain pasta well in the colander and refresh in iced water to cold running water before used.

**untuk memastikan spaghetti ya cukup masak., test baling g dinding..mun melekat.,cukup masak la ya. 'spor' bak kata org. just for sharing...coz ya la dbljar d kitchen..hahaha..

okay next..is kuah for spaghetti.. i choose bolognise sauce.,if mushroom sauce later i'll share d resepi.

Bolognise Sauce

50 gm butter

2 cloves garlic

150 gm mirepoix (lobak, bwg bsr n salary) -cara sebut "marapoa"..which lobak.,bawang besar n salary dipotong besar2 n di masak kaedah saute. Saute mean..msak guna butter..hurmmm..**igtkan senang mk jadi chef..mk xplain pun dh susah. ~_~

350 gm minced beef 

30 gm tomato paste

30 gm tomato puree

500 ml brown stock (50 gm+ 1 liter air) 

10 gm spices ( thyme, oregano, bay leaf) 

A pinch salt

A pinch pepper

Method:

1. Melt the butter in a pan, saute chopped garlic until fragrant.
2. Put in the mirepoix and the all the spices, stir until it soft.
3. Put in the minced beef, tomato  paste, and tomato puree.
4. Pour in the brown stock, simmer until the gravy is a little bit thick.
5. Season with salt and pepper.

tadaaa...easy n simple ryte..kalau sedap or x.,ya depend dgn org yg mmsak nya. hehe..

GOOD LUCK!

Lalang bercerita..

Bukan kisah lalang padi rumput..bukan kisah lalang yang x habis2 dgn football match...n bukan juga kisah lalang yg menceritakan kisah dongeng si kancil n bla3.. **bak kata M.L.  It's about POLITIK? wait...am i talk about politik?? woo hoo!! twit twit.. hahaa..**honestly im not into poilitik..hurmmm..nangga berita pun lagi la jarang.,or any issue of Politik? yaaa..haa..just "ambik tahu apa yg kita perlu ambil tahu as urself/myself..n rakyat.,uh..bla3". okay la. ermm? ~_~"

wanna share 1 vid by Matluthfi90... tajuk lalang. yaaa haa..tis wat lalang i mean. **selamat menonton dan berfikir.

sapa kata lalang x da pendirian? lalang pun ada jiwa pa..walaupun jiwa kosong. (apa kaitan)

"Berdiri pun tak kena

Tersenyum pun dimarah

Apa sebabnya (apa yang tak kena)

Bergaya pun dilarang

Apa lagi dipandang

Apa sebabnyaaaaaaa

****i mean lalang..hehe** ngam2..

hurmm..dh ckap.,im not into politic.. but myb thru tis vid.,u may got a message..

part last :

"ambik baldi kalau nak kawal masalah .

tutup lubang kalau nak selesai masalah ."

kalau ambik baldi,tadah air yg menitik , lama2 air dlm baldi penuh . siling ttp berlubang & tetap bocor , kena ambik baldi lain nak tadah air yg masuk . Masalah tetap tak selesai!! .

kalau tutup lubang , selesai masalah . x payah tukar2 baldi . walaupun ambik masa yg lama hasil dia berbaloi .

"ambik baldi kalau nak kawal masalah .
(mgawal masalah yang memang dah x terkawal)

tutup lubang kalau nak selesai masalah .
(mencegah..selesaikan masalah walaupun ambil masa yang lama)"

ada faham? **ttba cta sal baldi..siling la plak..but ada la mesej tersirat nyo. faham2 la sendiri. ntah..apa ntah aku merepek. ~_~

so..the conclusion is...biarla jiwa kosong..or kolot..coz otak tok dh penuh dgn bla3.. janji berisi dari CAKAP BANYAK... peace. :D

Happy Chinese New Year 2012 to all my Friends.. to members family bos Chef  too! 


wish everyone hv a lots of love n tomorrow will more better than yesterday.

60 Ways To Make Life Simple Again.

When we were young life was easier, right?  I know sometimes it seems that way.  But the truth is life still is easy.  It always will be.  The only difference is we’re older, and the older we get, the more we complicate things for ourselves.

You see, when we were young we saw the world through simple, hopeful eyes.  We knew what we wanted and we had no biases or concealed agendas.  We liked people who smiled.  We avoided people who frowned.  We ate when we were hungry, drank when we were thirsty, and slept when we were tired.

As we grew older our minds became gradually disillusioned by negative external influences.  At some point we began to hesitate and question our instincts.  When a new obstacle or growing pain arose, we stumbled and a fell down.  This happened several times.  Eventually we decided we didn’t want to fall again, but rather than solving the problem that caused us to fall, we avoided it all together.

As a result, we ate comfort food and drank alcohol to numb our wounds and fill our voids.  We worked late nights on purpose to avoid unresolved conflicts at home.  We started holding grudges, playing mind games, and subtly deceiving others and ourselves to get ahead.  And when it didn’t work out, we lived above our means, bought things we didn’t need, and ate and drank some more just to make ourselves feel better again.

Over the course of time, we made our lives more and more difficult, and we started losing touch with who we really are and what we really need.

So let’s get back to the basics, shall we?  

Let’s make things simple again.  It’s easy.  Here are 60 ways to do just that:

Life is not complex.  We are complex.  Life is simple,

and the simple thing is the right thing.

- Oscar Wilde

1. Don’t try to read other people’s minds.  Don’t make other people try to read yours.Communicate.
2. Be polite, but don’t try to be friends with everyone around you.Instead, spend time nurturing your relationships with the people who matter most to you.
3. Your health is your life, keep up with it.  Get an annual physical check-up.
4. Live below your means.  Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.  Always sleep on big purchases.  Create a budget and savings plan and stick to both of them.
5. Get enough sleep every night.  An exhausted mind is rarely productive.
6. Get up 30 minutes earlier so you don’t have to rush around like a mad man.  That 30 minutes will help you avoid speeding tickets, tardiness, and other unnecessary headaches.
7. Get off your high horse, talk it out, shake hands or hug, and move on.
8. Don’t waste your time on jealously.  The only person you’re competing against is yourself.
9. Surround yourself with people who fill your gaps.  Let them do the stuff they’re better at so you can do the stuff you’re better at.
10. Organize your living space and working space.  Read David Allen’s bookGetting Things Done for some practical organizational guidance.
11. Get rid of stuff you don’t use.
12. Ask someone if you aren’t sure.
13. Spend a little time now learning a time-saving trick or shortcut that you can use over and over again in the future.
14. Don’t try to please everyone.  Just do what you know is right.
15. Don’t drink alcohol or consume recreational drugs when you’re mad or sad.  Take a jog instead.
16. Be sure to pay your bills on time.
17. Fill up your gas tank on the way home, not in the morning when you’re in a hurry.
18. Use technology to automate tasks.
19. Handle important two-minute tasks immediately.
20. Relocate closer to your place of employment.
21. Don’t steal.
22. Always be honest with yourself and others.
23. Say “I love you” to your loved ones as often as possible.
24. Single-task.  Do one thing at a time and give it all you got.
25. Finish one project before you start another.
26. Be yourself.
27. When traveling, pack light.  Don’t bring it unless you absolutely must.
28. Clean up after yourself.  Don’t put it off until later.
29. Learn to cook, and cook.
30. Make a weekly (healthy) menu, and shop for only the items you need.
31. Consider buying and cooking food in bulk.  If you make a large portion of something on Sunday, you can eat leftovers several times during the week without spending more time cooking.
32. Stay out of other people’s drama.  And don’t needlessly create your own.
33. Buy things with cash.
34. Maintain your car, home, and other personal belongings you rely on.
35. Smile often, even to complete strangers.
36. If you hate doing it, stop it.
37. Treat everyone with the same level of respect you would give to your grandfather and the same level of patience you would have with your baby brother.
38. Apologize when you should.
39. Write things down.
40. Be curious.  Don’t be scared to learn something new.
41. Explore new ideas and opportunities often.
42. Don’t be shy.  Network with people.  Meet new people.
43. Don’t worry too much about what other people think about you.
44. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven, and like minded.
45. Don’t text and drive.  Don’t drink and drive.
46. Drink water when you’re thirsty.
47. Don’t eat when you’re bored.  Eat when you’re hungry.
48. Exercise every day.  Simply take a long, relaxing walk or commit 30 minutes to an at-home exercise program like the P90X workout.
49. Let go of things you can’t change.  Concentrate on things you can.
50. Find hard work you actually enjoy doing.
51. Realize that the harder you work, the luckier you will become.
52. Follow your heart.  Don’t waste your life fulfilling someone else’s dreams and desires.
53. Set priorities for yourself and act accordingly.
54. Take it slow and add up all your small victories.
55. However good or bad a situation is now, it will change.  Accept this simple fact.
56. Excel at what you do.  Otherwise you’ll just frustrate yourself.
57. Mature, but don’t grow up too fast.
58. Realize that you’re never quite as right as you think you are.
59. Build something or do something that makes you proud.
60. Make mistakes, learn from them, laugh about them, and move along.

****Oh, and enjoy life’s simple pleasures.  They’re free and better than anything money can buy.  

A good night song...HD again??? hehe

sik jemu2 dengar lagu tok...
always setiap detik juak mendengar nya.. :)

owh..another song by HD. hurmmm2..

aku ingin engkau... but...

(another 1 song k...... again..hehe.. :D )

here is it...aku dan air mata..

okay..my blog tonite full dgn lagu..hahaha..sik lama gik jdi web youtube. 

GOOD NIGHT!!

HAVE A WELL DESERVED REST PEOPLE(s)

**tedah..,followers bru jak 5..hehe.,bgus la ya. 

i dun need more..enough just me & my blog. 

:)

Katy Perry - The One That Got Away

"in another life..

 I would be your girl

we'd keep all our promises be us against the world

I would make you stay

so I don't have to say you were the one that got away

all his money can't buy me a time machine , no

can't replace you with a million rings, no

I should've told you what you meant to me

cause now i pay the price...."

:)

there.. me or u shouldn't hv to feel regret..

i want tis book!!! pls.. ~_~

Legacy Cookbook. yes..indeed..i want tis book. 

buku apa??...nah baca la sendiri d link nie. hehehe...

http://parochialsarawakian.wordpress.com/2012/01/15/sarawak-cookbook-is-judged-malaysias-best-at-international-competition-in-paris/

Top award nieeee.. 

"a cookbook, compiled and published by Sarawak's small Eurasian community, has been picked as Malaysia's best cookbook last year. The Sarawak Eurasian Association's Legacy Cookbook has been judged as the "Best in Malaysia 2011'' at the prestigious Gourmand World Cookbook awards in Paris on Dec 15."

owwhhh.. esok cari d kedai buku kalau ada. i must have one! 

^_^V

To Me & My Dear friends... And for the loved one.

Ease your Mind ~


When something happens to you, good or bad, consider what it means. There’s a purpose to life’s events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

You can’t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.. (ya la ya la… I know.. lol…)

No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. God didn’t promise day without pain, Laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

Remember the simple rules to be happy:
-          Free your heart from hatred
-          Free your mind from worries
-          Live simply
-          Give More
-          Expect Less

And some of my wise opinion:
-          Arrogant won’t help you anything to any better way of life
-          Get a mere job to extend your dreams and goal
-          Lying and pointing to other people won’t increase your credibility
-          Avoid humiliate yourself on your clumsiness

When you truly care for someone, you don’t look for faults, you don’t look for answers, and you don’t look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook the excuses.

Disappointments are lie road humps, they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth afterwards. Don’t stay on the humps too long. Move on!

When you feel down because you didn’t get what you want, just sit tight and be happy, because God is thinking of something better to give…

The measure of love is when you love without measure. In life there are very chances that you’ll meet the person you love and loves you in return. So once you have it don’t ever let go, the chance might never come your way again… Ehemmmm ehemmmmmmmm… lol…. ^_^

It’s better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride. We spend too much on time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give (T_T)

Jarak Antara Dua Hati?

Suatu hari seorang guru bertanya kepada murid-muridnya, 
“Mengapa ketika seseorang sedang marah, dia akan bercakap dengan suara kuat atau berteriak?”

Seorang murid setelah berfikir cukup lama mengangkat tangan dan menjawab, 
“Kerana dia telah hilang sabar, oleh itu dia berteriak.”

“Tapi…” guru bertanya kembali
“Orang yang dimarahinya hanya berada dekat dengannya. Mengapa perlu berteriak? Kenapa dia tak berbicara secara lembut?”

Hampir semua murid memberikan pelbagai alasan yang dirasakan logik menurut mereka. Namun tiada satu pun jawapan yang memuaskan.

Maka guru berkata, 

“Ketika dua orang sedang berada dalam kemarahan, jarak antara ke dua hati mereka menjadi amat jauh walaupun secara luaran mereka begitu dekat. Oleh itu, untuk mencapai jarak yang demikian, mereka harus berteriak.

Namun anehnya, semakin kuat mereka berteriak, semakin pula mereka menjadi marah dan dengan sendirinya jarak hati yang ada di antara mereka menjadi lebih jauh lagi. Kerana itu mereka terpaksa berteriak lebih kuat dan keras lagi.”

Guru masih melanjutkan, 

“Sebaliknya, apa yang terjadi ketika dua orang saling jatuh cinta?

Mereka tidak berteriak, mereka berbicara dengan suara yang keluar dari mulut mereka dengan begitu perlahan dan kecil. Seperlahan bagaimana pun, kedua-duanya masih dapat mendengar dengan begitu jelas.

Mengapa demikian?” 

Guru bertanya sambil memerhatikan muridnya.

Mereka kelihatan berfikir panjang namun tiada seorang pun yang berani memberikan jawapan. 

“Kerana hati mereka begitu dekat, hati mereka tak berjarak. Sepatah kata pun tak perlu diucapkan. Sebuah pandangan mata saja cukup membuat mereka memahami apa yang ingin mereka sampaikan.”

Ketika kita sedang dilanda kemarahan, janganlah hati kita mencipta jarak. Lebih – lebih lagi mengucapkan kata-kata yang mendatangkan jarak hati diantara kita. Mungkin di saat seperti itu, diam mungkin merupakan cara yang bijaksana. Kerana waktu akan membantu kita.

***it's true... :)